Tuesday, December 31, 2019

Highlights of 2019


  • Hannah started nursery
  • Took a trip to Antelope Island for the first time

  • Stephen and I celebrated our 10 year anniversary in L.A. We did simulated skydiving.
  • Took Hannah and the boys bowling for her first time
  • Spent lots of time in Twin with grandma and grandpa and cousins
  • Went to the Kerry Pettingill reunion
  • Took Zander shooting for his first time in Elba
  • Dad had to work a lot the first half of the year so the kids and I went on lots of adventures to the dinosaur museum and nature parks
  • Family camping trip to Logan Canyon
 
  • Went to the Lynn Pettingill reunion and hiked 6.5 miles with both boys up to Independence Lakes
  • Zander lost his first tooth
  • Drove through Wyoming with mom and dad for baby Stryder's funeral
  • Announced our fourth pregnancy
  • Hannah caught a serious infection that affected her lymph nodes. She had surgery on her neck and jaw
  • Celebrated Thanksgiving and Christmas in Twin 
  • Wrapped up the year with a trip to Classic Fun Center with the kids to ring in the new year


Christmas Day

Christmas Eve was pretty fun as we made our way home from Twin in the afternoon. We made cookies to leave out for Santa while Dad ran and got Chinese takeout for dinner.





This Christmas didn’t go like I thought it would. It was lots of fun, but the kids didn’t get up until 7:30! Stephen and I were making bets on what time the boys would sneak upstairs around 5:00 am but we were way off. Then it took us like two hours to open gifts. Santa gave Lucas and Hannah new scooters and Zander his first skateboard. Stephen got a leather jacket and we both got a new kitchen aid mixer. The kids got really spoiled by Santa this year for sure; they had a whole cushion full of toys and treats all to themselves.

We opened gifts under the tree taking turns being Santa while we waited for breakfast to cook, then the kids opened every gift they could get their hands on to play with them. Zander got another Star Wars LEGO set and beyblade arena, Lucas got a kitchen play doh set, play food, and a dinosaur set, Hannah got a play kitchen, and Mr. potato head bucket.

Stephen had fun smoking a turkey for our Christmas dinner and the kids loved it as you can see on Lucas's face. We're so lucky to have a dad\husband who likes to cook and is willing to do it for us all the time. He gets better and better every year. Merry Christmas!



Christmas Festivities

We had our annual Christmas Washburn Christmas party at Loren and Debbie’s this year. The kids couldn’t wait to meet Santa and sit on his lap especially Hannah who got really antsy and kept wiggling to get down for her turn. Then when it was her turn she shied away and looked sad for her picture, even though she was excited to see Santa. And Santa (Loren) didn’t disappoint the kids. Both boys got avengers legos and Hannah got a Minnie Mouse ride on airplane and all three of them were so excited to open and play with their new toys. It is always fun to see family, chat, and eat lots of food. We love our Washburn family!













Next, Stephen and I took the kids to see the lights at Layton park one warming evening. The kids loved it. It was nice to be able to walk around without freezing and see the kids get all excited as they shout out which animals they see. Some of the animals even had a button you could push and hear them make sounds. They loved running through the light tunnel, and afterward we stoped at a cookie shop for a decadent cookie that they couldn’t get enough of. It was a really fun night out with the kids.




Last, but not least, we went to Twin for a couple days for the Pettingill family Christmas party. We had everyone there but Scott and Sydney; even Becky was able to come this year! We had dinner, a spiritual thought by grandpa, a blessing on the family, sung happy birthday to Jesus, guessed the pot (which Charity won), and has our gift exchange. I didn’t even take pictures this year because we were too busy having fun. And to top it all off we woke up to snow on Christmas Eve before we went home. It was beautiful.

Thursday, December 19, 2019

I'm Not Getting Presents Anymore

Last week There was a day that Stephen had to work really late, so the kids and I hung out at home.  We were downstairs playing and watching movies. I let the boys play a video game while Hannah and I were watching a show on the other tv because she was running a high fever. Before I knew it the boys were fighting and yelling at each other per usual so I tried to ignore it and let them figure it out, then it got quiet. Then I heard a soft, timid "Mommy?" coming from behind me. Zander was walking up behind me intentionally so I wouldn't see him as he tried to talk to me, so I asked him what was going on. He said, "You're going to be really mad at me and Dad is going to be super mad at me." I asked again what happened and told him to come stand where I could I see him. He slowly and reluctantly stepped forward and with tears in his eyes just started blurting out what had happened so fast that I couldn't comprehend everything he was saying.

With hot tears running down his face and fear in his voice he told me that he and Lucas were playing with Dad's expensive gaming headset even though they knew not to play with it. They were trying to take turns and Lucas got mad and hit them out of Zander's hands as he was trying to take them off his head and ended up breaking the headset in half. Then Zander kept telling me how angry Dad and I were at him, and it was all his fault because Dad told him not to show Lucas how to turn them on because he didn't want him using them, but Zander decided to show him anyway and then Lucas slapped them out of his hands breaking them. If he hadn't gotten them out to show Lucas then they never would've gotten broken. Zander was just beside himself and scared of what was going to happen to him especially after Dad got home to find his headset broken.

I have to admit I was not happy because they were expensive. It's not an item we can just buy a new pair of, so I was upset, but I didn't get after Zander or Lucas. I did give them both a stern talking to and a hug afterward with reassurance that everything would be ok.

We went upstairs to eat dinner and Zander walked up the stairs with his head hanging low and sat on the couch. He said he just couldn't stop thinking about the headset. As he sat at the table he told me that Santa wouldn't be bringing him any presents anymore because of what he did. So I suggested that he write a letter to Santa explaining what happened and see what he'd say. That's exactly what Zander did after he finished eating. He didn't know what to say so he drew a picture of what happened. Zander even said sorry in his prayer for dinner.
It was so humbling to see this barely six year old start grasping the meaning of repentance and the consequences of disobeying. It was hard to be upset with him. Stephen didn't get home until 11:00 that night, so the next morning when the boys woke up they asked me what to do. I told them they both needed to go together and show Dad his headset and explain what happened. They were really scared, but did what they were told. Dad was pretty upset, but didn't yell or get mad at them. He thanked them for telling the truth, and tried to fix them and put them back together again.

Zander went to check the Santa mailbox to see if Santa got his note. He found a note with a little candy cane attached to it just for him and asked me to read it to him. The note said that Zander did the right thing by telling his parents right away what happened and apologizing for what he did even though it wasn't easy. And because of that he would not be put on the naughty list. Zander's eyes got big and wide and a bright smile spread across his face to match. He was so excited that we was not on the naughty list! Even though an expensive item was broken a big lesson was learned that night, and Zander has been trying to be better at being more careful with things and listening to his dad.

What’s Going On?

Back in October Stephen and I took the kids to spend the weekend with grandma and grandpa while we went to Boise to spend some much needed alone time together. It was kind of meant to be a surprise for Stephen for his birthday because he had been working such long hours at work and it was going to be a last hurrah before his big trial started and he wouldn’t have any more time off.

Anyway, on the way to Twin Falls I had noticed that Hannah’s face was looking kind of fat as she slept in her car seat. I made mention of it to Stephen but thought it was just the angle and way her head was laying on her lap as she slept, so I didn’t give it much more attention. As we made it to Twin we unloaded our bags from the car and sat down to dinner. After dinner grandma asked me if I had noticed Hannah’s face and how swollen it looked. I hadn’t, so we checked it out and, holy cow, was it swollen on one side! So we immediately put her in the car and drove to an urgent care to see what was going on with her face. She was immediately admitted and taken back for some tests. They took two swabs to test for strep and mono and they also did a CBC to check her blood for any abnormalities. They thought maybe it was a swollen thyroid or lymph node, but didn’t know why it was swollen. We were then sent home with some antibiotics for her to start.
Stephen and I left for Boise the next morning to start our “vacation” we literally did nothing that whole weekend, and it was glorious! We did some early Christmas shopping, took naps, went to a boring movie, and bought a car. We also got a phone call that all Hannah’s tests came back negative, so we didn’t really know what to do from there. When we got home to Utah that weekend I took Hannah into her pediatrician to see what he had to say. He kinda said the same thing, that it looked like a swollen gland of some sort and to keep her on the antibiotics for another week. If it didn’t get any better then we’d have to take her in to an ENT. A week passed and nothing had really changed, so I took her to see an ENT who told me the same thing as the other two doctors with no new information. Keep her on antibiotics for another week and see if it changes. I kept her on the medication for another week and had noticed that from two weeks earlier it did look a little smaller, but not much, so I called the ENT who then ordered for  a CT scan to be done at primary children’s hospital down town.

Hannah had been on antibiotics for 3 weeks before her scan was done. I took her off of them for two and a half days and noticed that her jaw had swollen all the way back up to where it was before an beyond, so I couldn’t wait to get the CT scan done. The day finally came and we took our two year old to the hospital to get her scan done. It was horrible! As a pregnant mom it was so hard for me to have to hold her down kicking and screaming and crying for it to stop as the nurses tried to get her IV line in. It took them two tries to get it in after a 10 minute struggle. Then we headed to the scan room where I couldn’t stay due to being pregnant. So dad stayed in there with her and tried to get her lay down and hold still and calm her down. As we were getting ready to leave the radiologist quickly mentioned that it was looking like a cyst of some kind. So that kind of eased my mind a little bit because this whole time I’ve had tumor on my mind. The mass was huge and came out of nowhere and was hard, so it had all the classic signs and symptoms of it being a tumor.

I called the ENT a few hours later to see if he had any news. He then told me that it looked like she had something called an 'A typical  myco bacterium' infection in a couple of her lymph nodes, and that it was really rare because he had only seen three of these cases in his 10+ years of practice. We had never heard of that before so Stephen and I did a little research and found that this particular type of bacteria is related to tuberculosis and leprosy. It can be found in contaminated water or soil, so we were trying to think back and figure out where she could have possibly picked it up, but nothing really came to mind. We hadn't gone anywhere or done anything out of the ordinary, so it was hard to pinpoint a source. Anyway, the ENT then referred us to an infectious disease specialist who is supposedly the best ID doctor around.

After the news from the scan the next step was to see a new ENT at Primary's who would assess Hannah's condition and see if she would need surgery to remove the infected lymph nodes. So that's what we did at the end of that week. We met with Dr. Park who after explaining her condition and gave us our options made us feel a lot better about what was happening to Hannah. He told us that it actually isn't that rare to contract the bacteria. He told us he saw a few of these cases every month in young children around Hannah's age, and that he had performed the surgery between 70-100 times so he was very confident that things would go well. He also said that the bacteria is all over in the air as well as water and soil, and that her condition was benign--if left untreated it would eventually go away on it's own, but it wouldn't be pretty. The infection would get bigger and  make a dark red/purple spot or spots on the infected lymph nodes and seep through the skin for about 12 months before getting any better, and the spots could become permanent, so we felt that surgery was our best option for Hannah.

The morning of surgery finally came on December 5th and Hannah was taken back first thing in the morning. The surgery lasted for about 4 hours. The doctor came out to let us know how it all went and let us know that there were, in fact, three infected lymph nodes that were about the size of oranges. The goal was to totally remove all the infected lymph nodes, but that wasn't possible in Hannah's case. She had two masses in her neck that went really deep into the neck and had surrounded themselves around her jugular vein and carotid artery, so they had to take extra time to maneuver around those to get all the infection out. The third mass, which was the one on her jaw that was ginormous, was only partially removed because the nerve that controls the bottom right side of her lip was running right through the middle of the mass. The mass had grown right around it like they had her other veins in her neck and was so big that it had caused that nerve to stretch and flatten out. And because they had to try and maneuver around the nerve to get out as much infection as possible, that caused her right lip to stop working for a little while, but at least the nerve wasn't severed causing permanent damage. All in all, the surgery was a success and we are so grateful for such great doctors and nurses who have helped us through this ordeal.
Because there is still some infection left in her jaw Hannah will continue to stay on specialized antibiotics for at least the next three to six months. Her recovery following surgery was difficult for the first few days because she refused to eat, drink, and take any medication whatsoever. It was a real struggle, but she soon  came around and slowly started eating and drinking and taking her meds all on her own again. She is back to being her goofy self running around and playing with her brothers.

I can't say thank you enough to all my neighbors, friends, and family who helped us get through this from prayers, fasting, and taking Hannah's name to the temple, and watching the boys for me during all her many doctors visits, and especially my mom who came down for a weekend to watch the boys for us so Stephen and I could be with Hannah during her surgery.

My mom is truly an angel on earth. She always goes above and beyond when she comes to visit or help us when we need it. She doesn't just stay and watch the kids. She cooks, cleans, plays with the kids, takes them out on outings, mends, does laundry, etc... the list goes on. I mean, she even cleaned my washer! AND left cookie dough in the freezer for us to use later. We got to go shopping together and have lunch for a few hours before she left for home.

Friday, December 6, 2019

Thanksgiving Break

We spent Thanksgiving in Twin with the Pettingills this year. Stephen has a lot of leave that he needs to use up before the end of the year, so we were all able to spend the better part of a week with my parents. The kids loved having dad there and getting to spend time with grandma and grandpa Pettingill and their cousins. I didn’t take any pictures this year, but we had scott, Adam, and Joseph’s families there for lunch. 

While we were in Idaho, Utah was getting hounded with snow. We came home to 6-8 inches of snow that the kids promptly got dressed to go play in. Hannah was so excited to wear her snow gear and play with the boys. 

After thanksgiving day stephen and I took the boys to see Frozen 2. Lucas fell asleep even before the movie started. 
Watching Lights in the Nighttime Sky
 We set up our Christmas tree after getting home and shoveling the driveway. The kids enjoys getting to put the ornaments on themselves.